Ask Lambda Legal: After DOMA, What Does it Mean for You?

Susan Sommer/Director of Constitutional Litigation
Photo: Lambda Legal
Susan Sommer/Director of Constitutional Litigation  Photo: Lambda Legal

Susan Sommer/Director of Constitutional Litigation
Photo: Lambda Legal

By: Susan Sommer/Director of Constitutional Litigation—

Q: Now that DOMA is gone what will it mean for my family?

A:  The victory at the Supreme Court was an amazing time for our community but we also know there will be a lot of questions in the weeks and months ahead. There are more than 1,100 places in federal law where a protection or responsibility is based on marital status. Federal agencies—large bureaucracies—may need and take some time to change forms, implement procedures, train personnel, and efficiently incorporate same-sex couples into the spousal-based system.

Until same-sex couples can marry in every state in the nation, there will be uncertainty about the extent to which same-sex spouses will receive federal marital-based protections nationwide. For federal programs that assess marital status based on the law of a state that does not respect marriages of same-sex couples, those state laws will likely pose obstacles for legally married couples and surviving spouses in accessing federal protections and responsibilities.

Depending on the benefit couples are seeking, the federal government approach to recognizing married same-sex couples varies. For example, some benefits like veteran’s benefits are guided by whether a couple lives in a state that recognizes their marriage while other benefits like spousal immigration rights  are based on whether or not the state in which the couple married recognizes their marriage as valid. And for issues like filing federal taxes, we expect more guidance from the IRS for how couples in civil unions should proceed.

Lambda Legal along with 10 other national LGBT advocacy organizations jointly issued a series of factsheets to provide guidance to same-sex couples and their families as they navigate accessing federal rights, benefits, and protections.

The fact sheets are intended to provide general information regarding major areas of federal marriage-based rights and protections offered by federal agencies. Before making a decision, it is essential that same-sex couples consult an attorney for individualized legal advice. People must make careful decisions when and where to marry, even as advocates work towards equality. Visit: to learn more. Certain fact sheets are available in Spanish.

Fact Sheets created by: American Civil Liberties Union, Center for American Progress, Family Equality Council, Freedom to Marry, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, Human Rights Campaign, Immigration Equality, Lambda Legal, National Center for Lesbian Rights, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force and OutServe-SLDN.

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2 Comments on "Ask Lambda Legal: After DOMA, What Does it Mean for You?"

  1. Wendy Valhoff | August 18, 2013 at 2:47 am |

    My partner and I lived and worked in the U.S. from the time we graduated from high school until we retired in 2010. Shortly thereafter, we emigrated to Canada. In 2012, we were married in London, ON. Same sex marriage is legal in Canada. We get social security from the states, as well as all of our investment income. How does The demise of DOMA effect us? How do we file our taxes next year?

    Wendy L. Valhoff

    • Hi Wendy,
      Your question has been sent to Lambda Legal for an answer. It is unknown when they will be able to reply and if they will reply to you directly or will reply in the general sense, sharing the answer with everyone through their column in The Rainbow Times.

      I hope this helps and thank you for contributing to to TRT’s Comments area. We appreciate your feedback!

      –The Editor

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